#Father in law or #mother in law is intruding in your #marriage,  if this is how you feel then you are loosing your own space.  Are they interfering or you letting them interfere in your #life. If #marriage is strong & couple are happy in their #relationship then in-laws are not a liability or responsibility rather they become a support system.  Frustration keeps mounting over the years of #marriage if not taken care of maintaining peace with in-laws.

As per our #marriage #counselling clinical study of thousands of #marital cases, Some of the common Issues where you feel in-laws may be interfering are :

For Wife from her husbands family :

  • Where are you going ?
  • What time will you be back ?
  • What are you wearing, you should dress up properly?
  • Why are going again ?
  • What are doing, why you can’t be more responsible ?
  • Why are you phone all the time ?
  • Who is sending you these messages ?
  • When you coming to us ? even last time you went to your mothers home.

 

For Husband from wifes family :

  • Why is she sick all the time ?
  • Why are you not spending time with her ?
  • When are you coming to us ?
  • Why are you stopping her to buy her clothes.
  • You should stop drinking.
  • You need to settle your life.
  • Why are you not trusting your wife ?
  • Why do you come so late from office ?

Although above issues may not be the in-law issue you personally have to deal with, it reflects one of the many ways interference by in-laws can bring tension to a marriage. Strategies for addressing interference from outsiders, however, remain the same. Marriage #counselling can help you deal better with #inlaws issues.

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But if you feel you are better alone then there must be reason about it from the past incidents you had with in-laws.  In that case meet a iNtegra Counselor & find out how you both can bring in happiness at home.